Inside the Mind Of a Teenage Boy
So, the introductory
paragraph doesn’t exactly cover the topic of my blog post, now does it? Eh! –shrugs-
who cares if I break the rules, I’m just writing casually after all. J
How am I to grab your attention if I act like those boring as hell teachers
from school. I mean, come on!
Now, I don’t
mean to be a jerk to any teacher readers out there, I’m just saying, it’s
always good to be quite casual with people. That’s the fun of conversation, not
to overcomplicate things and just let your mind out! To me, writing a blog post
is almost like talking to myself. That’s actually the way I conquer my
challenges best, and writing a blog post makes it all even easier.
Anyways, so
what goes on inside my mind? Typically things more complicated than I should
let myself think. Lately, I’ve thought about that a lot and realized that the
best way to feel better and more comfortable inside my head is by letting it
out. Something about letting out those thoughts adds to them in a positive way.
That’s one thing that makes writing so freaking fun. J In the world of
literature you can just be yourself, and for a while, what I mainly focused on
was trying to do the thing that would make the most money for my loved one,
Katie. She always worries that I’ll stress out about it, because I honestly
used to. Now though, I realize that what’s most important is just to have fun.
Yeah, work can be a big pain in the ass, there’s no real changing that. Though,
if you’re interested, 99% of the time you can work faster and with an open mind
that will allow for more thinking.
With these
beliefs in mind, I’ve committed myself to doing everything with a smile on my
face. Studies show that when you smile you actually feel better. Actually,
here, let me quote something for you… “Smiling is like a feedback loop: smiling
reinforces happiness, just as happiness causes smiling.” - http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Happy
This article shows different steps to being happy, and I really like it because it seems to be extremely practical. In a way, I think of every event in the world as a loop, as it’s part of the beliefs of all people that believe in the study of Kabbalah (I don’t follow a strict religion, I just try to understand the world in practical ways, these studies help A LOT!). I could go on about these Kabbalah things, but I’d rather not, maybe I will later though if you’re interested! :D Kabbalah actually believes the fundamental things that Christians believe. The difference is mainly that, instead of being rules, the Torah is more like a guide to understanding the world. If people understood the world, then it would create an infinite loop of permanent happiness, or that’s what I believe. Why would someone refuse to do what seems like a freaking GREAT and satisfying thing to do? Religions make themselves look like armies against those that don’t believe, I don’t like that. J
This article shows different steps to being happy, and I really like it because it seems to be extremely practical. In a way, I think of every event in the world as a loop, as it’s part of the beliefs of all people that believe in the study of Kabbalah (I don’t follow a strict religion, I just try to understand the world in practical ways, these studies help A LOT!). I could go on about these Kabbalah things, but I’d rather not, maybe I will later though if you’re interested! :D Kabbalah actually believes the fundamental things that Christians believe. The difference is mainly that, instead of being rules, the Torah is more like a guide to understanding the world. If people understood the world, then it would create an infinite loop of permanent happiness, or that’s what I believe. Why would someone refuse to do what seems like a freaking GREAT and satisfying thing to do? Religions make themselves look like armies against those that don’t believe, I don’t like that. J
Anyways,
though, back to my main point, and sorry literature freaks ;D. Anyways, understanding
the world really does help! Don’t overcomplicate it either! It’s not really
that complicated, really nothing is. If you are happy, there’s higher chances
of understanding things, because you have an open mind when you’re happy. When
people overcomplicate things, their minds aren’t open to understanding. A wise
man once said, “Don’t worry, be happy” – Bobby Mcferrin. Gosh, I really love
that guy’s music. Peace s the way of the world. Peace can be stretched to
everyone of all origins, understandings, cliques, and beliefs. We all have one
thing in common, and that is that our minds work relatively the same way.
Everything that acts on our minds works relatively the same way, aside from the
variables of things we’ve all noticed previously.
These
beliefs are always in my mind. These understandings make it SO MUCH easier to
get through my day, and lately, allowed me to be much more outgoing than usual.
This is because happiness plays a large rule in human interaction, in terms of
people liking you and you being in a good mood enough o talk to them! J
A smile will help everything, that’s my outlook on it.
Lately, I’ve
gained a lot of friends by being outgoing and the thing I’ve noticed about that
is that it always feels good to be able to talk to people about things. I don’t
like keeping my thoughts in, letting them out makes it a lot easier for me to
be happy, because it keeps me thinking in positive and productive ways.
So, I’ve
told you so much about happiness and smiles, and I won’t lie, I know that that’s
not always the force that drives productivity and success. Typically it’s
actually that you choose to be successful, but that choice is a hell of a lot
easier to make when you’re happy, trust me on that one. I’ve always had issues
with doing work until I started looking at it that way.
Of course,
on our own, it’s a little hard to do anything. J It’s human nature to
rely on people, even hermits rely on others. If they didn’t, they’d probably die
a really sad life. But hey, don’t worry all you shy, antisocial or introversive
people! I understand, because I’ve always been the same way, even though you
may not realize it. I’m actually an introvert too. If you Google INFJ you’ll
find that I am a rare personality known as “The Protector”. According to https://www.personalitypage.com/INFJ.html,
“Only one percent of the population has an INFJ Personality Type, making it the
most rare of all the types.”
This personality type is defined as introversive, and I
won’t lie, it’s a pretty fitting description of me. It’s the fact that I’m an
introvert and that I’m comfortable with it that makes it easier for me to talk
to people. Understanding myself allows me to comfortably follow my heart and be
myself. That’s how everyone should be, in my opinion. Don’t try to be someone
you’re not, because if you do, you will inevitably end up failing. That’s a
factual loop that exists within the world and I’m pretty sure I don’t need
evidence for that one. You’ve all most likely heard it plenty of times before. If
you follow your heart, you will never be a unsuccessful. You just have to learn
to accept what you have, be happy with it, and progress no matter how many
times you fall. Life is about falling and getting back up again. If you’re not
successful the first time, try again. So what if you’ve already tried 100
hundred times? You haven’t tried 101 times, have you? So what if you failed
that one-hundred and first time you did it? You haven’t tried 102 times have
you? Just keep going. In the end, passion and persistence is all you need to
prevail. Trust me. J
What
matters in the end? Self satisfaction. Be selfish, show love and accept it. This
life is all about taking what is rightfully yours, but not in material objects.
Show the world that you’re a great person by BEING that great person. Don’t be
a terrible person, or that will be all people think of you in the end. Follow
your heart, and that’s what will lead you to victory!
This is the
main thing in my mind. J If you have something on your mind, come and talk to
me! The comments are open to everyone, and you can always email me at thechayed@gmail.com. I would love to hear
from you, discuss beliefs and understandings. I will never argue with you, you
have my word. In the end, what matters to me, is you.
Remember,
everyone, my heart belongs to the world. I want to be able to help everyone in
every J. Yes, admittedly, I’m quite selfish for every one of
you. Not to seem like a creeper, I just care about the well being of the world,
mainly because I also care about the well being of myself. How could I possibly
feel good if I don’t have people to share those feelings with?
In the end,
I’m always here to help. I always will be. That’s a promise.
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